Fall in Love

If you are not engaged you will be soon engaged. But what kind of a person comes to your dream, have you ever thought about it?  Teenage is the period we dream too much about our partners, features needed, what kind of a person we need. The books we read, the movies we see, the people we see around and even the music sow the seeds of our dream girl or dream boy.

Decade back, dream girl of boys would be Hema Malini type but now it changed to a long list of people in the glamorous world. But not all are stereo types, majority prefer to have good looking girls as partners, who are educated and have some aritistic skill(dance , music, painting etc etc etc ).

What about dream boy……… should be handsome,good looking, good at behaving with people especially girls, it goes on with multiple dreams. There may not be any logic too.

But the worst thing is when you are at the verge of marriage your heart will die and only brain will work. Then the fun happens, everything happens ulta ulta … I am not joking; whatever thought and expectations you had about your partner will fly in air and only job, social status, education, account balance and high class profile only matters then. When both of you went for hangouts, shopping, movies, talked over phone all over the night, text for every silly matters why these thoughts never popped up? Why are we dropping our dreams and happiness all of a sudden for the people around us? Why we never see the tears and pain of a person who is totally depended on us?

See friends, if we don’t want to break the trust with our parents then don’t give promises to a stranger also. Don’t be a reason for someone’s tears and pain because only the person who shed tears know the intensity of pain. Before committing yourself, before surrendering think more than once, take time because its your life, whether the game is a win or loss you are the one who will carry that tag throughout your life.

 Love is made for the happiness of the world but loss of love and love for money is degrading the world with no humanity concerns. Love is a coin, it has head and tail. Understand yourself and you will never understand anyone else.