Family and relationships are good most of the times in our life when we are in trouble but if those become trouble for our happiness and peace of mind why do we have to carry it with us. Most of the Indian ladies keep aside their dreams and wishes for the good will of their family but what do these ladies get in return- least considering husband, ignoring children and non-supportive relatives who keep suppressing her feelings in the name of the board "Life is like that". But I don't think life is like that. Life is what we make fulfilling our dreams and wishes ourself or with the ones who have the same wavelength as ours.
When you are at the verge of your teenage your parents start running in search of your soul-mate of their choice - by choice i don't mean to include your emotional feelings it goes for only money , job and followings. Life is rotated around money and money ignoring human feelings and emotions. These marriages or relationships which begins with the word of parents goes smooth in the beginning but end up in frustrations but they carry on for the name sake . Why are human beings so worried about the short period of life so much?
Marriage is to live happily for years, to be with each other , to support each other. If the family you have cannot give you happiness then it cannot be called a family.
While chatting with my friend, few words made me sit and think for a few minutes . Yea I will share with you too if you can think for some time well its good - Its better to live happily for a second instead of living unhappily for years. If the person living with you for years can't understand what you are then what is the meaning of that relation. Staying under stress and strain for different reasons does not make you live.
Understanding, trust ans care are the essential ingredients to cook your life so deliciously. So cook it well
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